Musings of a Caramel Latte Addict

I’ll be getting married on the 3rd Saturday in May to a man I am not in love with.

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An ideal romantic, I have always believed in love. I looked forward to being swept right off my feet by Prince Charming. I’m the type who would weep over a love tale well told and cheer as the couple in the movies kiss and live happily ever after.

Now, however, after a really bad relationship and 28 years in the bag, I have realised that that feeling of being in love is overrated and is the final and most negligible consideration in looking for a mate. Any guy I loved never loved me back to the degree I loved. They were bad guys, sharp guys that special kind of fine guys. It never lasted. Most relationships I have been in, I have been the 70% giver, while I’d make do…

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  1. #1 by olaleye1 on January 29, 2012 - 2:20 PM

    Wow…but honestly do u want to be with someone u dont love for the rest of your life? or do u think its too late for you to find real love? or are u hoping that love somehow comes later or in your marriage….wish u the best anyways….

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